By now most people have heard the term generational curse. According to scripture, a generational curse is the natural outcome of an act of defiant disobedience passed down from one generation to another. You will find this in Exodus 20:5; Numbers 14:18; Deuteronomy 11:26-28; Ezekiel 18:2.
(“The rules of engagement” by Cindy Trimm, page 85).
In Leviticus 18 God gives all the unlawful sexual relations and acts that we are to avoid, the Lord said do not defile yourselves with them. There are 19 or 20 of these acts and at sometime or other our ancestors if not we ourselves have committed some of these sins. As we have seen in life some families have certain tendencies, therefore different sins carry different consequences. This is where the enemy comes in to make sure that it stays a family affair.
In the spring of 2010, the Lord introduced me to the book, “Familiar Spirits”, the unseen enemies, by John Deby Edukugho, and this is what I found.
“ Many familiar spirits are linked to families and because of their long acquaintance with such families through generations, they are often familiar or “Family” spirits. During many counseling sessions I often come across these familiar or “family” spirits afflicting many people including Christians.
As I was counseling a Christian sister who has been married thrice to three husbands and divorced thrice before she gave her life to Christ, I noticed that her two elder sisters were experiencing the same marital problem. The first had married twice and divorced; the second, twice and divorced and her third marriage was about to hit the rocks. She also confirmed that her father had many wives. These are no coincidence, but a satanic trend that was undetected in their family.
By the unction of the Holy Spirit, I was able to discern that the familiar spirit called Abandon working through another spirit Asmodee was assigned to their paternal generation; these two spirits are responsible for unsuccessful marriages, prolonged bachelorhood and spinsterhood and multi – marriages.
They reign in so many families perpetuating evil, and unless they are resisted and arrested by the power and authority of Jesus Christ, many generations of the families to which they are assigned will never enjoy marital blessings.
Have you noticed a young girl whose behavioral pattern is very similar to her mother’s, maybe her pride or her saucy attitude, her sharp tongue or revengeful temperament? She might also manifest some good sides of her mother. Have you heard people say “she is just like her mother and worse off like her grandmother in this violent attitudes that she exhibits”?
For a very long time I was unconsciously exhibiting certain bad traits of my father and surprisingly I watched my son who is my first child unconsciously exhibiting the same traits. It took the grace of God through the help of the Holy Spirit for me to overcome them. I also solicited same help for my believing son. These are familiar or family spirits who know both my paternal and maternal family lineages that are still hanging around to continue there age long influences. Except they are quickly discerned and resisted they may perform many destructive jobs in the lives of many.”
He also said that often women do not marry because they have been given a husband in the spirit world. When I read that I had to believe what he was saying was true and this is why. Six months prior to that I had a dream about a man who was helping me fix the lights in my garage. I saw a child about 9 years old standing near the garage door looking at us and in the back ground I saw my yard which was huge, like the one I had at the time of the dream and what I have now.
I laid my head on his lap while talking and I felt very comfortable as if we had a relationship. I said that to say this, many men had approached me but I would not spend any time with them because I was waiting on the man in my dreams. Crazy isn’t it. I had men beg me to call them, or run after me to catch up with me. However, this curse of singleness was upon me.
I personally know women who have been single from 10 to 40 years. I know a lady, who was engaged and they were to be married within the month, but all of a sudden something happened and the guy was never heard from again. She told me later that He married someone out of state. I remember she was very nervous as she was preparing for the small wedding and she lost her temper with him. Years later she ran into one of his daughters and was told that the woman that he married, divorced him and swindled him out of his house and his kids out of their inheritance. My friend is not married to this day.
I myself have been married and divorced three times. I have committed some of the sins in the Lev. 18 line up and I am sure that many in my ancestry as well. In 2014, after reading many books and watching many sermons on Spiritual warfare, which I believe were sent to me by the Lord, I decided to seek out a deliverance minister, Don Dickerman Ministries. I previously used one of his DVD’s on the subject and was healed from issues emotionally and physically from a knee injury, but there was an issue that would just not go away. One of the first things that were mentioned to me when entering the deliverance was that I was cursed with singleness. That issued was removed right away before we discussed anything else. I found that a big part of deliverance is repentance. It was a very interesting three-hour meeting. The details of that meeting will be in the next book that I write, “The Recompense”, to be published in 2017.
I have questioned the Lord about the subject of singleness and He has assured me that the issue is no longer with me and gave details and evidence to that fact. However, recently the subject has come up again and on my YouTube page one day was a minister by the name of Brother Carlos discussing the subject. I clicked on it and there is where I found the information about Leviticus 18. He seems to be a deliverance minister and very powerful as well as knowledgeable, but you have to discern for yourselves. He said that if a person would go through this or any other curse breaking counseling, why would you marry someone that has not. That made a lot of sense to me and I believe that it would give a marriage a fighting chance, and of course be lead by the Holy Spirit.
He has a daily broadcast and many YouTube videos as well. This weekend in Sacramento, CA He has a seminar on curses.
There are many verses in the Bible on singleness as a blessing if that is what you and the Lord has chosen for you.
I believe this to be an interactive writing, meaning the Spirit of God will interact with you letting you know if this is right for you or maybe someone that you know. The next link is a 15-minute prayer for singleness and premarital curse breaking. Singleness curse
Until next time,